The first tips: pleasing yourself
Sometimes people try their best to meet the needs of the other party because they are afraid that the their partner will not be satisfied. But sex is actually the giving and receiving of both parties. If you blindly satisfy each other, people would be eventually hate. Women should explain their needs to each other straightforwardly, without guilt or embarrassment. In fact, men like people who can enjoy sex.
When a man finds that his actions can bring happiness to women, it excites him more than any aphrodisiac.
The second tips: Don’t pretend to pleasing someone
In order to pleasing someone, You can get fake high-quality sex very realistically that men can't distinguish. But when they did this, they didn’t think of the long-term consequences: if they didn’t feel happy but pretended to do it, it would undoubtedly make men repeat his wrong actions next time. He will mistakenly thought that way would make women happy.
The third tips: Don’t ignore man’s body
Usually, men seem to be able to enter directly without any foreplay and enjoy it. In fact, this is their own misunderstanding. Stroking and teasing can make men excited, because when women do, they are saying how much they like his body. Some women are shy and dare not act, but there is absolutely no man who dislikes women doing this, so just do it boldly, and you will get visible results immediately. Stroking and teasing are very simple, as long as you keep sliding your fingers across his body, especially the inner thighs and nipples; sometimes touching his "big toy" as teasing. In addition, women can also use hair, tongue to increase the provocative effect.
Fourth tips: Don't be afraid of sexual fantasies
A woman admitted: Every time she had sex with her husband, she imagined it was making love with Leonardo. This kind of imagination made her extremely excited, and her husband was also happy because of her wild actions. She thought it didn't matter, she couldn't really have an affair with Matt Damon anyway. Experts say that sexual fantasies are healthy because not only is it a great motivation, but what happens in the fantasies does not have to be true at all. For example, if a heterosexual man fantasizes about a lesbian scene, it does not mean that he is a gay man; if a woman imagines having sex with a man other than her husband, it does not mean that she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasies just show that this person has a rich imagination, and it can indeed stimulate the progress of sex.
Sixth tips: understand your partner's body
We know that everyone is different, and sex life either. If a woman has had sex with other men before, it is sometimes inappropriate to apply the previous method to the current partner. So, how do you know what the other person likes? It depends on careful observation. Of course, some people will automatically express their preferences by shouting loudly, but many people may belong to the "silent" type. it does not take long to observe, and he can match his preferences seamlessly.
Seventh tips: love your body
Nine out of ten modern women think they are overweight. When meeting naked, this self-deprecating view sometimes prevents them from enjoying the fun they deserve. For example, if a person thinks that his chest is too small, his partner may feel inferior when touching his chest, and will subconsciously avoid his hands or guide him to other places. Over time, these signals can disturb the partner and affect the sexual relationship. A woman trains herself to think like this: Although her breasts are small, men are happy to stay with her, which they think there is no problem. In addition, she’s no longer resists the male partner touching her breasts.
The eighth tips: make good use of auxiliary equipment
Sex products are good tools to increase sexual pleasure, because they can provide many new ideas and increase excitement. For some people, auxiliary products can even solve the problem of sexual in-coordination.
The last tips: "spying" the sex life of others
Although spies are usually bad, sometimes sex is not satisfactory, so spies can also have a positive effect. Because seeing the happiness of others motivates me to think about ways to change the situation. It is normal for people to watch adult sex tapes, and they can get a higher level of sexual pleasure, allowing them to quickly enter the state and orgasm. You need more stimulation in sex.